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âNo one can make you feel inferior without your consent.â This quote from Eleanor Roosevelt is particularly helpful to consider as many of us find ourselves posting our resumes yet again becauseâdespite the pervasive impact of todayâs âretractingâ economyâit can be easy to think itâs somehow your fault that youâve re-entered the job market: to beat yourself up thinking, âIf only I had done X,â or âIf only I hadnât said Y.â The trouble with this is that this sense of personal failure has the potential to influence the way you begin to think about your former situation, making it still more difficult to talk about how and why you were let go. With this in mind, then, letâs look at some language you can use to ensure you end up on offense instead of defense. The Foul Weather Friend Response Youâve all heard the term, âfair weather friend,â to describe the person whoâs always around when the sun is shining and the seas are calm. Unfortunately, foul weather friends also existâpeople who miraculously show up in your life the day your divorce papers are delivered, when you find yourself in the emergency room, or during the planning of your parentâs funeral, but are somehow never free to come to your holiday party, your childâs graduation, or your anniversary celebration. These psychic vampires generally open with, âWhat happened?â not âWhat can I do?â as their ultimate goal is not your well being, but instead detail-collecting in an effort to make themselves feel better about whatâs going on in their lives, and the boost of self-importance they get from being âthere for you.â You will also find they have time to spread your story far and wide. wow gold For this particular category I recommend keeping your explanation short and sweet. âWell, we got divorced.â Or, âWell, I got laid off.â Thatâs it. Further detail is unnecessary. Should they follow up with an, âOh, Iâm so sorry. Did you see it coming?â all you need to say is, âThank you. Yes. (Or no) I appreciate your concern.â They are not entitled to more. The Potential Employer Response Obviously things become somewhat more complex when a potential employer asks about the reason behind your changed status. wow power leveling That said, I continue to recommend keeping the particulars of your situation to a minimum, and instead making a broader statement about the state of your industry, âYes, a number of people in my area were also let go due to downsizing. world of warcraft power leveling As you know, my sector was hard-hit due to X, Y, Zâ Or, âYes, an inability to raise our third round of funding necessitated some cuts all around. As you know, venture capital is thin on the ground in this economy.â should suffice. Then use that as a springboard for talking about what you learned from the experience, and how you plan to apply that knowledge to your new position. âWhat Iâve discovered is that tackling challenges outside my comfort zone actually inspires meâI like a sharp learning curve. This is one of the primary reasons I came in to talk to you. I very much admire the diversified, hands-on approach you ask of your employees.â Or, âWhat I learned is the value of a good fundraiser, so thatâs where Iâve put my energy in the intervening monthsâvery few people look bored when you mention you know how to raise money. With regard to how I might raise money for you, I was thinking of X, Y, Z.â

A team of researchers from institutions in Germany, India, and Japan discovered this surprising result while observing the ant species Leptogenys processionalis travel down linear trails. Like many other ant species, these ants form trails with their pheromones that remain stable for hours or even days, making the trails analogous to vehicular highways. âOur study clearly demonstrates that ant traffic is very different from vehicular traffic, in spite of superficial similarities,â Andreas Schadschneider, of the University of K?ln and the University of Bonn in Germany, told PhysOrg.com. âIt also raises a fundamental question: how do the ants achieve practically âfree-flowâ up to such high densities; our experiment demonstrates what happens and we also make a theoretical model of what might be responsible for this behavior.â wow gold To observe the ants in their natural setting, the researchers set up video cameras at sections of 10 different one-way trails that had no intersections or routes that branched off. Surprisingly, the scientists never observed individual ants speeding up to overtake another ant in front; the ants followed each other in single file. This behavior, of course, contrasts with vehicular highway traffic, as well as most other known traffic forms. Most significantly, the scientists found that, unlike vehicular traffic, the average velocity of ant traffic remains the same in spite of increasing density. Consequently, the greater the density, the greater the flux, so that more ants travel down the trail segment in a given amount of time. In contrast, vehicles on a highway tend to slow down when the traffic density increases, eventually resulting in a traffic jam. Along the same lines, the researchers noted that most types of high-density traffic exhibit mutual blocking, in which a vehicle is prevented from moving by neighboring vehicles and also contributes to the blocking of those vehicles. However, the researchers did not observe mutual blocking in the ant trails. wow gold As the researchers suggested, perhaps evolution has optimized ant traffic flow, since ants are known to have highly developed social behaviors. In their study, the scientists observed that ants tend to form platoons in which they move at almost identical velocities, allowing them to travel âbumper-to-bumperâ while maintaining their velocity. At higher densities, platoons merge to form longer platoons. But because their head-distance remains the same, traffic still maintains its same velocity even as density increases. This behavior is very different from highway traffic, in which vehicles close together tend to slow down.

VINA DEL MAR, Chile (Reuters) - Center-left world leaders including Britain's Gordon Brown and Brazil's Luiz Inacio Lula da Silva on Saturday called for global financial reforms at next week's G20 summit, but the U.S. warned against over-regulation. Meeting in the Chilean coastal resort of Vina del Mar in a pre-G20 warm-up, Brown, Lula, host Chilean President Michelle Bachelet and Spanish Prime Minister Jose Luis Rodriguez Zapatero said deep financial reforms were vital to avert a another financial meltdown. "The whole world is paying the price for the collapse of a reckless venture of those that have turned the world economy into a gigantic casino," Lula told fellow leaders in a roundtable discussion. "We are rejecting blind faith in the markets." Brown said the G20 summit in London had to focus on concrete ways to revive growth and create jobs while protecting the environment and the world's poor. "We have got to be very clear that banking cannot be unsupervised any more; there's got to be cross border supervision," he said, calling for an overhaul of the system of international finance and coordinated policies to help underpin sustainable growth. wow power leveling Health Top Tips Nutrition Love Lifestyle Happiness Weight Loss U.S. President Barack Obama has called on fellow G20 leaders to agree on immediate action to help boost the struggling global economy, wow power leveling while Brown wants the group to back a $100 billion expansion of trade financing and agree upon a long-delayed global trade pact. U.S. Vice President Joe Biden told the meeting overlooking Chile's Pacific coast the United States was eager to coordinate international policy to reduce systemic risk to global markets, but warned over-regulation could hurt healthy markets. world of warcraft power leveling "We should not over-react. It is not a choice of markets or governments," Biden said. "A free market still needs to be able to function." Thousands of people marched in Britain, France, Germany and Italy on Saturday to protest the economic crisis and urge world leaders to act to reduce poverty, create jobs and avert climate change at the G20 summit. world of warcraft power leveling "We have to democratize the economy, globalization and the financial system. How to do this? We already know: with information, transparency and responsibility," Zapatero said. (With reporting by Rodrigo Martinez, Antonio de la Jara, Patricia Velez and Adrian Croft in Vina del Mar; editing by Todd Eastham)

Everybody needs a little time away ⦠Even lovers need a holiday, far away from each other.âLyrics from âHard to Say Iâm Sorry,â by Chicago Going separate ways as a couple is often read as a prelude to separation (which has its own pressures), but it doesnât have to be. In fact, many experts agree that taking separate vacations as a couple, within certain guidelines, can actually help to enhance the relationship and allow each partner to keep it in perspective. There are rules for making separate vacations work, however. Ruth Peters, who has written extensively on family dynamics and is a contributor to the Today show on NBC, believes that separate vacations should be an addition to our lives, not an escape. Remember, too, that one size does not fit all. Many couples consider separate vacations vital to their relationshipâs success, whereas others wouldnât dream of enjoying themselves apart. You and your partner might have no interest in the idea, but if taking separate vacations sounds like it might work for you, consider these tips to maximize pleasure and minimize guilt. wow gold Keep Communication Lines Open Agree about the ground rules for communication before you leave on your trip. Schedule a set time to check in and assure your partner that youâre okay, tell him that you miss him, and fill him in on what youâre doing while youâre away. You donât have to give him an itemized listâthis is about your individuality, after allâbut you should provide just enough details to make him feel like heâs in the loop and on your mind. If this is the first time youâre proposing to fly solo, make sure your partner understands your reasons for doing so. If he or she expresses fears of infidelity or dissatisfaction with the relationship on your part, then you might consider spending your vacation money on couples counseling instead; partnerships are built on trust and that trust should be strong enough to weather periods when youâre not in each otherâs physical space. âA successful monogamous relationship shouldnât mean giving up who you are or your independent activities,â says Dr. Peters. âA successful marriage or monogamous relationship does entail the willingness to make some sacrifices in order to accommodate the other person.â Tell your partner that you just need some time for yourself and encourage him to do the same. Listen to his concerns and help him understand that your decision has nothing to do with the relationship. Youâre not separating yourself from him; youâre just trying to schedule some quality time with an old friendâyourself. $peaking of $pending ... wow gold In the current economic climate, most families have trouble eking out just one vacation a year, let alone one per partner. Be realistic about how you can allocate resources for your time away. Will your partner be able to do the same? Can you take money from somewhere else in your budget to help pay for your trip? Can you find some alone time in a way that is less expensive? For example, could you spend one day at a spa rather than a weeklong cruise? Also consider setting up separate savings accounts for your separate vacations. That way, you and your partner each have the responsibility of paying for your own trips and you can avoid some of the resentment that inevitably arises when one of you is sipping Mai Tais on the beach in Malibu while the other is working.

Dieting. Personally, I suck at it, as do many people throughout the world. But it doesnât mean we donât try. Of course, some of us try to eat less and exercise more and some people jump on the bandwagon of any fad diets, always hoping to find a miracle that leads to quick weight loss with little effort. As a result, thereâs been quite a few crazy diet ideas in the last few centuries, here are the top ten weirdest diet methods weâve ever heard of. The Chewing Diet The chewing diet was popularized in the Edwardian Era by Horace Fletcher. He believed that chewing allowed food to be properly absorbed into the body. Insufficient chewing would lead to constipation and clog up the digestive tract, said Fletcher. He lost 40 pounds in just four months using the diet he created. Dr. Kellogg was a friend and fan of Fletcher and he required patients at his sanatorium to participate in the chewing diet as well as a variety of other weight loss methods. To properly implement the chewing diet, a person must chew each bite over 32 times, which takes approximately 30 seconds. After chewing is done, the person then tilts his or her head back and allows the food to trickle down their throat. Anything that is still too big to swallow must be spit out. The desire to eat things likely diminishes after a period on this diet, so it does work as you begin to eat less food. Possible Side Effects May Include: A sore jaw. Much longer meal times. Annoyed and disgusted friends. The Tapeworm Diet If you eat for two and arenât pregnant, maybe itâs time to get a second mouth in your belly. A tapeworm can sure help eat all of that excess food. Around the turn of the century, these little parasites were sold in a simple pill form claiming to help you shed inches from your waist. Itâs uncertain whether these pills actually had live tapeworms or if they were just another âsnake oilâ product, but what is certain is that people have intentionally used tapeworms as a weight loss method. Jockeys are amongst the many people purported to have used tapeworms as a diet. wow power leveling Possible Side Effects May Include: Well for one, having a worm inside your stomach, which might cause nausea, headaches, infections and diarrhea. Some peopleâs organs are blocked by the eggs and this can result in death. There is no evidence that tapeworms actually help people lose much of weight, so the whole experience may be for nothing. The Sleeping Beauty Diet You canât eat while you sleep. So naturally, if you sedate yourself for days and neglect to eat as a result, this starvation diet may actually work for you. Elvis was a proponent of this weight loss method around the end of his life and the dieting method was also made popular in Valley of the Dolls. World of warcraft Power Leveling Possible Side Effects May Include: A severe pill hangover can leave you with a headache, nausea and fatigue. Additionally, improper sedation might actually kill you and so might starvation. The Vision Diet wow gold If your food looks disgusting, youâre less likely to eat it. While this is certainly true, itâs not enough to make the vision-dieter glasses any less silly. From the testimonials Iâve read, the glasses make you feel relaxed while going on your day to day routine, but they donât help you lose much weight. Johnny Depp is a big fan of blue glasses, although itâs hard to say if he just likes their look or if he actually feels the effects from the lens color. Possible Side Effects May Include: Looking like a geek in big blue glasses. Possible vision problems after prolonged exposure to the glasses. Washing Away The Pounds World of warcraft gold World of warcraft Power Leveling[/url] If youâre showering everyday, you might as well lose weight while doing it, right? Thatâs the theory behind Aoqili diet soaps. These soaps contain seaweed that will penetrate skin and breakdown fat. There seems to be no evidence that this product works though, not even faked testimonials. Possible Side Effects May Include: Some people have had allergic reactions to the soapâs ingredients. Ear Stapling